A successful life comprise of two parts. One, when kicking the bucket you have a smile and say to yourself that you had a pretty good one and other, when you feel so logically i.e. you actually have done it. May not be to the mark you wanted to. There would always be things what you would regret, always be people you wanted to reach out to, people you wanted to thank, people wanted to have a coffee with, company a walk or people just to hi. You dont realize how precious it is until the last moment. People say old habits die hard. When you are in school thats probably why u relied more on the last minute suggestion than originally study. Exams after exam pass by and yet we never take any lesson. Then we grow up and have broken hearts and yet we have some "less useful" friends around. We break up and after years of misery once in a rainy winter evening realize we should have treated our ex better and she deserved it. Well its hard to take any lesson home as long as it is important. So we go on and do that again...ignore parents feelings and just when you realized closing your eyes for the very last time those all come back to you...40-50-80 years of your life in a single moment probably in one second. May be first time you broke your leg running in a green field.....first time someone had that shy look at you in a train while being back from boarding school....getting soaked wet and finishing the hike in a bare foot or hold your daughter in the hospital for the first time and had the feeling of being part of a great creation, a beautiful thing like that......We wait to do everything for the right time thinking we have all the time we need for ourselves. This is dangerous . Life changes in a moment. Someone you had a rough conversation with may no longer be there...you may no longer be there. Don't miss out for a nice and humble sorry. Nothing hurts in life than not being able to say sorry to someone you really cared even more than saying you loved her.....
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