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A successful life comprise of two parts. One, when kicking the bucket you have a smile and say to yourself that you had a pretty good one and other, when you feel so logically i.e. you actually have done it. May not be to the mark you wanted to. There would always be things what you would regret, always be people you wanted to reach out to, people you wanted to thank, people wanted to have a coffee with, company a walk or people just to hi. You dont realize how precious it is until the last moment. People say old habits die hard. When you are in school thats probably why u relied more on the last minute suggestion than originally study. Exams after exam pass by and yet we never take any lesson. Then we grow up and have broken hearts and yet we have some "less useful" friends around. We break up and after years of misery once in a rainy winter evening realize we should have treated our ex better and she deserved it. Well its hard to take any lesson home as long as it is important. So we go on and do that again...ignore parents feelings and just when you realized closing your eyes for the very last time those all come back to you...40-50-80 years of your life in a single moment probably in one second. May be first time you broke your leg running in a green field.....first time someone had that shy look at you in a train while being back from boarding school....getting soaked wet and finishing the hike in a bare foot or hold your daughter in the hospital for the first time and had the feeling of being part of a great creation, a beautiful thing like that......We wait to do everything for the right time thinking we have all the time we need for ourselves. This is dangerous . Life changes in a moment. Someone you had a rough conversation with may no longer be there...you may no longer be there. Don't miss out for a nice and humble sorry. Nothing hurts in life than not being able to say sorry to someone you really cared even more than saying you loved her.....

Help to heal!

Its funny how things work sometimes. If you are in pain helping someone really heals your pain. May be you find how tiny your pain is after seeing someone else suffering from even a bigger ones. If thats the case thats messed up thought. But it WORKS. I have tried it and I think thats the only way can keep me out from my thought which just involve me. You find a big chunk of strawberry in your fruit smoothy its obviously not  well blended. Likewise unless and until you loose yourself in others you are not truly in love.

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I have made some mistakes in my life some of them im not so proud of:)  But one of the thing i am proud of is knowing you. I have had some friends for long time like 10 yrs or more. I talk to them every so often. I know whats going on their lives. Although we don't seem to talk often now a days after what happened after we hung out last time but you have a really big impression on me. Its weird sometimes people we know the least have the biggest impression on us....

A walk in my shoes

Watched the movie "a walk in my shoes". An awesome movie. Kind of explain why people seem not to care the things they don't. I haven't ever thought about what it would be like to step into someone else's life. All the apparent anomaly you see you can explain.

Best moment is at 55-57 mnts and one in the end.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELvO68zE36A&feature=related